You Belong: A Summer Message for Our Trans Students

Summer can be a wonderful break from homework, tests, and busy schedules—but for many transgender and nonbinary students, it can also feel isolating. The school year often provides something that is easy to take for granted: supportive teachers, trusted friends, affirming clubs, counselors, and daily reminders that you belong. When summer arrives, those connections may suddenly feel far away. If you’re feeling lonely, unseen, or worried about the months ahead, please know that you are not alone. There are thousands of young people in Fairfax County and across Virginia who are navigating the same challenges, asking the same questions, and finding their way forward one day at a time.

Most importantly, your identity is not something that disappears when school lets out. You deserve respect, dignity, and the freedom to be yourself every day of the year. Summer can also be an opportunity to strengthen friendships, connect with supportive communities online and in person, explore your interests, volunteer, create art, spend time outdoors, or simply rest and recharge. If you are struggling, reach out to someone you trust—a friend, family member, counselor, teacher, coach, or community organization. Asking for support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

The world is better because you are in it. Your voice matters. Your future matters. The challenges you face today will not define the rest of your life. There are people throughout Fairfax County who care about your well-being, who are working to make schools and communities more welcoming, and who believe in your right to thrive. This summer, be gentle with yourself, celebrate the small victories, and remember: you belong exactly as you are.